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Welcome to Equally Safe Falkirk
  • Home
  • Services
  • What is domestic abuse?
  • I need support
  • Supporting my children
  • Helping a friend/relative
  • I have harmed my family
  • Useful information
  • Safe & Together training
  • Fast online referral
  • News and events
  • FAQs
  • CAFADA Research
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Helping a friend or relative

How we can help

How we can help

How we can help

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 Our two-pronged approach will provide support to your friend or relative at a pace to suit them.


We can:

  • Help them to identify strengths to keep them and their children safe
  • Support them and their children to heal from trauma
  • Bring their family together safely to make a Family Plan for them and their children.  If they wish, their Family Meeting can include other family members, such as grandparents, friends or anyone who can support them.
  • If appropriate and safe, work with the person who has caused harm to identify and challenge negative behaviour to improve safety and family functioning
  • Arrange to see or speak with them when, where and how it is best, and safest for them. 
  • Be able to help with practical advice and support on issues, such as accommodation, legal matters and accessing benefits or financial support.

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What you can do

How we can help

How we can help

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Your friend or relative might not feel ready or able to talk about what's happening.  


  • Tell them you have noticed something isn't right and you are concerned about them
  • Be patient, try to find quiet, safe times and let them know they can talk to you if they need to
  • Listen - don't blame or judge
  • Reassure them that what is happening is not their fault
  • Offer to help them, or make a referral on their behalf
  • Acknowledge their strength - it takes courage to talk about what is happening to them
  • Praise them for any actions they have taken to stay safe
  • Encourage them to express their feelings
  • Acknowledge their right to make their own decisions
  • Don't tell them to leave the relationship - accept that is their decision
  • Encourage them to seek help, or medical advice if appropriate - and offer to support them to do so
  • If you believe them to be at imminent risk of harm dial 999


family & friends ally guide

Helping a friend or relative

Equally Safe Falkirk Leaflet NEW 2 (pdf)Download
What is Domestic Abuse Leaflet 2 (pdf)Download
Why doesn't she just leave leaflet 2 (pdf)Download
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Equally Safe Falkirk

Watling Lodge, Tamfourhill Road, Falkirk, FK1 4RE,

01324 632903

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